Fading Relations

We all want to lead a happy and prosperous life in this world. And we all share some wonderful relationships which further add colors in our life in one way or the other. Every relationship could be our parents, brother, sister or beloved, holds its own importance. We cherish these relationships. Our closest relations stand by us in any situation thick or thin. So we can say they are the colors of our life.

Normally colors fade with span of time or situation. But relationships never fade, instead they strengthen as we foster in life. This is just because of our faith and love for our relations. We always try to revive the relations to make them everlasting.

In the initial stages of any kind of relationships we never speculate about its fading. Instead we visualize a beautiful life ahead. Because the base of a relationship is love and love always appreciates. But these days the colors of relationships are also fading specially in accordance to over loved ones. This actually lasts, sometimes for couple of years, sometimes for couple of days.

Do we ever think why our relationships are becoming colorless? Why multiple break-ups and divorces are heard about? Was this the scenario ten years back? It means now a days relationships are just like clothes they will lose their color and grace with every wash.

I personally feel that the relationships of our previous generation are still colorful and alive. We can always find many old couples enjoying morning and evening walks, sharing their joys and sorrows. So let’s think: are they pretending? Are they bound to do that? Have they not ever faced any kind of problem in their life? I guess NO! They are behaving in such a manner because a beautiful color is still there in their life. And they learnt how to adjust, how to respect the differences. They actually know the appropriate meanings of love, faith, patience and sacrifice. Let’s do the same and enjoy a colorful life.
Aastha